Ever get those days when you find that you feel naughty? Everything that you say comes out a little slanted to the obscene side. Every touch seems like it a little bit more lingering then it should. You look in the mirror and where yesterday you saw some hideous creature, you see one hot momma/poppa. I’m having one of those weeks and I LIKE IT! This week I’m not the funny fat girl with great hair. This week I’m the voluptuous woman with great hair and sex appeal. I like this me better. I’m more confident when I’m this me. More people smile and yes I’m sure it is because I smile more, but I’ll take it anyway I get it. And men, well lets be honest there are enough guys that like a little (a lot) more meat on their BBQ. Yes I just compared myself to meat and I LIKE IT.
I spent Friday afternoon with my friend Sue. She is a overweight, 56 year old black woman and she is my mentor. My mentor of what you might ask?! Well my mentor at being a sexy, confident and wonderful woman. Don’t get me wrong my momma can charm the pants off any man so I come by a lot of this stuff naturally, but Sue teaches me that it’s good to trust in your own sexuality. That it’s okay if your first thought when you see a man is “Damn can I take him home?” Even if he is a priest. Doesn’t mean your going to do it and the priest of course you can’t deny he is hot, but that by thinking it isn’t hurting anyone.
I think this helps out with a lot in life. When you see yourself as beautiful and desirable that is the person you project. I know it sounds like I’m bragging,(but it’s my blog anyway)but this week I took a little more care with my clothes, hair and make-up. Hell I wore earrings and I wasn’t even going to a funeral! Know what happened? People talked to me all the time. Said I looked pretty, said that I smelled good and said I look happier then I have in a while. NICE!! And it keeps the old man on his toes. He looks a little bit closer and touches a little more often because the vibe I’m giving off doesn’t say “fuck off and die.”
So I’m going to keep this going as long as I can. Maybe again it will be second nature like it was when I was younger. Always better to feel beautiful then like a big pile of poop.
16 Sep 2007 at 09:35 pm | #
YOU GO GIRL!
18 Sep 2007 at 10:55 am | #
There’s something, (actually, a LOT,) to be said for a positive attitude. My wife, for instance, looks simply beautiful when she is happy and upbeat. When she is depressed, it tends to reflect that in her looks.
My wife is very attractive, but she has put on some weight since we have been married. I never say a word to her because I wouldn’t hurt her like that, and because she has always tried to do something about it anyway. Even if she didn’t, I still wouldn’t bring it up.
She was also in a car accident a long time ago. It was before we met, and she ended up going through the windshield, which in turn fillet her face. She has a scar that runs from her cheek to just under her mouth, and she used to be very self conscious about it. Frankly, I never really noticed it, but she ALWAYS noticed it. Since we have been married it has been less of an issue for her. As she ages it seems to fade, and I think enough people have convinced her that what was once a very prominent scar is now a hardly recognizable ripple.
I said all that just to say, as I said at the beginning, a positive outlook can do wonders, as you are discovering first hand. Good for you, Cindy!
20 Sep 2007 at 11:51 am | #
Jeff is right about the positive outlook producing a beautiful person. But I don’t want you charming the pants off a lot of men my Girl!!!
22 Oct 2007 at 08:20 pm | #
So????
What’s up ? What’s New? What’s Old??? What’s Changed???