That is married to a man that thinks he has the right to go through her stuff.  Look at her personal thoughts in her journal, make assumptions about what he reads and then reacts to those assumptions.  I have a friend that used to write all the time but doesn’t anymore because it makes for to many fights when she writes things that her husband doesn’t like.  I have a friend that knows that her husband is being nosey and isn’t about to start another pissing contest over it.  I have a friend that isn’t happy and isn’t going to sitting around acting like she is.  Husbands my advice: IF YOU ARE THE NOSEY TYPE, KEEP YOUR NOSE OUT OF YOUR OLD LADIES BUSINESS.  IF SHE WANTS YOU TO KNOW SOMETHING SHE WILL TELL YOU.  YOU GOING THROUGH HER STUFF JUST PISSES HER OFF. 

Ladies: If you live with someone that is nosey don’t tolerate it.  Tell him to keep out of your shit or get the fuck out.